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Early Life
Born in 1936 to Late Joseph Okwudor Omemu of Odoni and Okolobaiere of Agbere, Prince Harrowel Elaye Omemu was a charismatic and jovial figure. Fondly known as Elaye, he grew up in Odoni, where his mischievous nature often put him at odds with his sister Lydia. His father, struggling to manage his spirited son, entrusted him to his nephew, F.M. Bribena, a teacher at Agbere Standard Primary School. Bribena played a pivotal role in Elaye’s upbringing, shaping him into a determined and successful individual.
A memorable story Elaye often recounted involved an incident where Bribena accidentally caused a head injury. Elaye, ever the dramatist, ran to his mother, declaring he would no longer attend school. However, his mother promptly sent him back, emphasizing the importance of education. This experience instilled in Elaye a deep appreciation for learning, a message he would pass on to his children.
Education
Elaye’s educational journey began at the Standard School in Agbere, his mother’s community. He later pursued his secondary education in Ibusa, Delta State. After completing his studies, Elaye joined the Niger-Delta Basin Development Authority (NDBDA) in Bendel State. His participation in a wrestling event caught the eye of the late Colonel Samuel Osaigbovo Ogbemudia, the then Military Administrator of Bendel State, who offered him a position at the Sports Council.
Elaye’s exceptional performance earned him a university course in Arizona, USA, where he excelled and was awarded honorary citizenship of the state.
Career
Elaye began his professional career at the NDBDA alongside his senior cousin, Mala Anthony Ndiomu. During the Nigerian Civil War, they relocated to Bomadi. Elaye’s talent in wrestling was recognized by Colonel Ogbemudia, leading to his appointment as a Swimming Coach at the Sports Council, earning him the nickname ‘Coachito’.
Elaye’s dedication and skill propelled Bendel State to the top of the National Sports Festival in 1979, with his swimming department earning numerous gold medals. In 1978, he transferred to the Rivers State Sports Council, where he continued his exceptional work until his untimely passing in 1987. His contributions were instrumental in the employment of many Ijaw individuals in the Rivers State sports councils.
Family Life
Elaye cherished both his maternal and paternal families. Despite frequent disagreements with his father, he spent much of his time in Agbere, his mother’s hometown. He was a proud member of the Adokuware family and actively engaged with his relatives. His love for the people of Agbere was evident in his sponsorship of a posthumous song by King Robert Ebizimo.
Elaye practiced polygamy and had children with different mothers. However, his profound love for his family fostered unity and love among his children. He adopted a unique approach to discipline, relying on reasoning and guidance rather than physical punishment. This philosophical approach greatly influenced his children, fostering their growth and success.
Elaye had 17 children, 15 of whom are still alive today, each excelling in their respective fields.
Passing
Prince Harrowel Elaye Omemu tragically passed away in a car accident on the east-west road in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, on June 7th, 1987.
Legacy
Elaye’s passing was deeply felt by the Izon-Ebe community and his family. Colleagues described him as “creative and purposeful,” an exceptional mobilizer, and a relentless advocate for progress. He was known as the “King of Gold Medals” in swimming and made significant contributions to the entertainment industry as an Awigiri exponent.
Elaye’s legacy lives on through his multifaceted contributions to sports and entertainment, leaving a lasting impact on those who knew him.
